1. Je vois aucun rapport avec les enfants qui ont perdu leurs parents a SiChuan.
2. Certains ont le droit de defendre leur "amie", certains ont aussi le droit de s'exprimer leur point de vue. Je ne visite pas tres souvent 美丽人生, mais le droit d'expression a 美丽人生 est uniquement reserve aux amis, je ne pourrai pas etre d'accord. Surtout selon toi, 现在这个时候，就不要说什么, 大家关掉，这样最好, c'est un menace en tant que moderateur de 美丽人生 ?
I want to cry after reading your stories, Daniel, I am so sorry for what you have suffered till today. I know when one falling love in another, for the first time in life, you did give all your trust in her, all your love. What I want to say is, don't generalise all chinese women, all women the same kind. Most of us chinese girls are just very kind, warm-hearted and sweet, or even too :). Why did you get f**ked by this kind? Well, first of all, you really didn't have a good chance, which you cannot blame anybody (maybe from nowon buy some euromillions, who knows what god will give you ) secondly, as you know, China is a country so special, persons rack in material for long time, and there is so little chance for such a numerous people, some egoistes will risk everything to get what they think is essential element for their"happiness", like money, europeen nationalities, foreign husbands to show, for what the glory to be a human or the honest mean nothing to them, so you just can do nothing with these persons. However, it will maybe happen to a russian girl, a east-european one, or even a french one, so, really, don't consider it as the chinese nature.
My suggestions are, 1. learn about a little lover skills, yes, something like chatting in msn and then move in is never correct in no matter what culture, it is about an essentiel social communication capacity. No respect, no love.
2.never give 100% of yourself to another, this is not egoisme, or the s**t like "you dont believe in me" or what. This is called "self protected" or " personal screcy in a relationship" . If Lz, you cannot understand these, you are not mature yet, tu risque toujours te faire un avoir plus tard.
最后， 痛定思痛，什么来着，lx 的补充， 谢谢。
May god bless you!!
) secondly, as you know, China is a country so special, persons rack in material for long time, and there is so little chance for such a numerous people, some egoistes will risk everything to get what they think is essential element for their"happiness", like money, europeen nationalities, foreign husbands to show, for what the glory to be a human or the honest mean nothing to them, so you just can do nothing with these persons. However, it will maybe happen to a russian girl, a east-european one, or even a french one, so, really, don't consider it as the chinese nature. 
