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原创 why men marry bitches? 坏女人有人爱

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刚说完郁闷的小师妹今天就找了个新男友,佩服一下...
2008-4-4 09:00:53

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同意lz,我要找回原来的自己,现在觉得自己越来越脆弱,越来越神经了。。。。。。还是喜欢那个张扬洒脱的自己。

jms一起加油哈""!!
2008-4-4 09:37:38

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2008-4-4 10:56:10

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2008-4-4 14:16:19

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原帖由 vivian0219 于 2008-4-1 22:49 发表


真不是这意思,这是美国一本畅销书的名字,这里的bitch是魅力女人....美国和中国不一样,他们结婚晚,挑结婚对象的想的和国内不一样.



以前的男朋友嗔怪时叫我bitch
现在的男朋友嗔怪时叫我salope
国家换了,人种换了,语言换了
就是语气和内容没换。。。:em00015: :em00019:
2008-4-4 17:32:08

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1,"The worst thing a woman can do is see a guy every night of the week. That's how she becomes his good-time girl on his 'reserve list.' What will happen is, the guy will start coming over at nine o'clock and then he'll leave by ten-thirty. If he gets access or what he wants from her anytime he wants it, he won't have to lift a finger to keep it going."
2,"Men are competitive. When he buys a car that is a limited-edition model, he feels like he has something special. Guys in the street who race cars usually race for pink slips, because they want to win, conquer and take the other vehicle. That carries over to women. A woman who is easy won't scratch his competitive itch. When she stops expressing her opinion and starts agreeing with everything he says, that's usually when a man starts to feel bored."
3, "A woman should never go looking for him or chase him down at three different places where he said he might be having a drink. If he says, 'Either I'll be at the Cheesecake Factory or some bar on 26th,' don't try to track him down. If you want to be his 'steady,' let him come track you down."
4, "My fiancée was the first woman to put me in my place. She constantly reminds me, 'Hey, nobody's forcing you to stay.' If I tried to BS my way out of a situation, she'd say, 'Let me save you the time and energy. Don't give me that s**t, because I ain't buying it.' I know if she caught me cheating she'd smack me over the head with a frying pan. And I respect her more than any woman I've ever known."
5, "If he can sum you up in one sentence, he'll be bored."
6, "Confidence is when you don't try to interpret or overly process everything that you are observing out loud. It prevents the relationship from progressing on a normal course. For example, every time I gave this woman flowers, she would remind me that her ex stopped bringing her flowers. What she really wanted to ask was whether I'd keep doing it in the future. That made me feel like she didn't really enjoy the flowers or appreciate the present moment with me."
7, "A woman shouldn't say, 'You don't call me enough,' or, 'You never tell me you love me.' As a woman, your best asset is to be unpredictable. He should never be able to figure you out. When he can always predict what you are going to do next, you've lost him as a long-term partner. He'll look for someone else whom he can't understand or control."
8, "If she feels strongly about something, she'll have a backbone. This woman is the woman he respects. Not a 'melba toast' cracker that crumbles with very little pressure."
9, "You have to seem like you aren't giving yourself fully. 'Here I am. Take me.' Men want to be kept guessing. Think about it. When a guy picks out a movie, he wants to be on the edge of his seat from the very beginning. If someone doesn't lose a limb or get shot and buildings aren't blown up all within the first 20 minutes, he'll think he got cheated out of 20 bucks."
10, "A woman shouldn't even crack a joke about marriage. I was on a second date with a girl, and we are both from Ireland. Back home we have a saying, 'If you kiss me you are going to have to marry me.' If you have the desire to get married, never let a man know that up front. If you do, it's the same as handing him a manual and telling him exactly how to dangle a carrot and play on your weaknesses."
2008-4-4 19:05:28

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原帖由 summershrimp 于 2008-4-4 15:16 发表
喜欢 支持 赞同 可是不知道怎么做 性格要改太难啦

每天改变一点点还是可以的.  不能改变,但是可以改进.
2008-4-4 20:33:54

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10 一定要矜持........  这个好象是妈妈们天天会说的,**如果你值得,男人会为你等待.**
学习了。。。
物以稀为贵。
2008-4-4 20:34:47

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原帖由 freshfruit 于 2008-4-4 20:05 发表
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1,"The worst thing a woman can do is see a guy every night of the week. That's how she becomes his good-time girl on his 'reserve list.' What will happen is, the guy will start coming over a ...


sometimes, love is like a fight which makes us exhausted.
Why just make it easy? Wanna save the time for other meaningful things.
2008-4-4 20:41:38

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原帖由 xymm 于 2008-4-4 10:37 发表
同意lz,我要找回原来的自己,现在觉得自己越来越脆弱,越来越神经了。。。。。。还是喜欢那个张扬洒脱的自己。

jms一起加油哈""!!



生活总会给我们惊喜,让我们发现自己的不足,然后改正它,等好不容易改好了,新的不足又被发现了...
2008-4-4 20:43:33

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呵呵,很多事情,说到容易,做到难啊
不过写的挺好的
2008-4-4 21:38:27

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呵呵,所以最后一条行动力是很重要的呀.:10100:
2008-4-4 22:58:09

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写得很好呀,支持....
2008-4-4 23:43:00

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学习一下,哈哈哈
2008-4-4 23:57:40

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写的很好我
我认真的看完了 觉得自己需要改的还很多
不要紧 人生就是这么一个过程
现在怎么样不重要 重要的是 我们一边想着希望怎么样 一边努力的朝那个方向在做

补充一句:
如果不幸失恋了 女人们 千万不要小题大做
尤其不能把自己和自己的恋情特殊化 觉得谁也不能理解你 不能了解你们的爱有多深
要相信 这个世界上 有太多太多这样的故事
大家都过来了 不是么?

切身的体会 希望能帮助大家
说的不好 不要怪我
2008-4-6 00:16:54

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