Post by ashman
来法国3年多了，男友在两年多前就回国了。现在我们的异地恋已经维持了两年多了，我也说不清我对他的感情如何，喜欢是肯定的，但是。。。我一个人在巴黎，快被生活折磨死了。男友不在身边，自己要照顾自己，为了维系我们的感情，异性朋友也要记得保持距离，不好搞暧昧关系，（关键是即便我有心，人家也不想惹我这个有男友的）可是有的时候真的很寂寞（在巴黎连个谈得来的朋友都没有），所以我就越来越抑郁，搞到现在天天在家都不开...
Post by 晚云闲
MM应该学会享受一个人的生活.
LG回国后,我刚开始也很不适应.但LG说,你这一生,能够独自生活的日子,也许就只有这不到一年的时间了.好好享受它吧~
想想说的很对啊,一个人自自在在,时间随心所欲的安排,多么自由啊~ 不要自寻烦恼,做一个自己想做的女人就好了.
而我LG也因为我积极向上的生活,而更加爱我了.
Post by ashman
来法国3年多了，男友在两年多前就回国了。现在我们的异地恋已经维持了两年多了，我也说不清我对他的感情如何，喜欢是肯定的，但是。。。我一个人在巴黎，快被生活折磨死了。男友不在身边，自己要照顾自己，为了维系我们的感情，异性朋友也要记得保持距离，不好搞暧昧关系，（关键是即便我有心，人家也不想惹我这个有男友的）可是有的时候真的很寂寞（在巴黎连个谈得来的朋友都没有），所以我就越来越抑郁，搞到现在天天在家都不开...
Love in distance does be quite difficult.but in your case, i can see that your bf doesnt have big problem about ur relationship, but the big part of problem in your relationship is from ur feeling of loneliness.So that's not big deal, all ur need are some friends in paris, espacially girls friends, to help u make through the last year in France.
so what i want to suggest u is , make friends, come out with them to take some fresh air from time to time, but dont give up this relationship with ur bf so easily.because it's not its faut, and maybe u will be quite sorry about it in futur if u give it up.
I live in paris too, i love taking little trips arround paris and shopping.Maybe u can talk with me in msn or go out with me some times for fun.I dont have lot girl friends neither.
Dont be afraid :).i'm straight. My bf will go back Chine after this summer. so we will face a love in distance since then.so i just want to give u some support in order to encourage myself for future.
Whatever, hope u find what u want in ur life: new friends, or a new healthy relationship.
Post by steadily61
Love in distance does be quite difficult.but in your case, i can see that your bf doesnt have big problem about ur relationship, but the big part of problem in your relationship is from ur feeling of ...
that will be nice ,tks
add me MSN pls :tudylin@hotmail.com
真的很感谢大家
同我一样情况的JM，希望能同大家交朋友，加我的MSN.互相鼓励一起走下去。我平时也喜欢逛街，看电影，聊天，喜欢一切美的东西，只是无奈于事事都得独行所以都懒得去做。我实在是做不成独行侠的。
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