When you are ready, you can knock on his door, c z you no he will be there and wait for you.
But Soulmate is also fragile. Soulmate need to be taken care of. One of the most bad things of alcool is that, you can say something which will hurt your Soulmate.
However, even if your Soulmate can hurt you, he never meant it, you know this. Soulmate will never ever let you down, even if Soulmate is a ultra-liberalist, your pain is his pain, your joy is his joy, your decision is his decision. Soulmate never let you alone, never and ever.
If anyone hurts you, Soulmate fights for you, and never retreats.
Soulmate is a very very private thing, he never wants the public to see anything about Soulmate.
So, what is Soulmate, it is only a fool who do not know why to be a Soulmate.